Vanessa Osorio Laughlin has noticed a perk of giving monthly to Fred Hutch Cancer Center — she gets thanked twelve times a year. Thirteen, if you count the acknowledgment letter at tax time.
“I don’t mind the gratitude,” she joked. “I don’t mind getting thanked.”
The gift itself has become a ritual of sorts to Osorio Laughlin over five years of giving, automatic but still rich with intent. When the payments are interrupted — by a changed credit card number, perhaps — she happily updates the information, an act she describes as a recommitment to something she has already chosen.
“It doesn’t lose its meaning because it’s small and regular,” she said. “It’s the sense of continuity, not the amount.”
That continuity also shapes the relationships at the center of Osorio Laughlin’s life. She has known her best friend since she was four, remains close to a large extended family and has lived in the same Seattle house for more than 20 years, raising two children with her husband, whom she’s known since high school.
But the people closest to her are not the only familiar presences in that history. Growing up on Whidbey Island, Osorio Laughlin heard “Fred Hutch” as part of the region’s vernacular long before the institution entered her life. Cancer was part of the background, too, appearing so often on both sides of her family that a genetic counselor reviewing her family history stopped to ask whether Osorio Laughlin had made a typo. She had not.
“I don’t know anybody cancer hasn’t touched,” Osorio Laughlin said. “If you love people, have relatives, this is going to be part of it.”